By Howie Holben

So you want to get the most out of a gay romantic destination and you’re stuck between booking through an agency and going independently. There are benefits to either side of the coin, but deciding your sweet spot might come down to what you want to get from the time away.

Usually, one plans out a gay romantic vacation because they want to spend a little time with their significant other without interruption or real responsibilities. Yet sometimes you plan it because your partner has always wanted to go to someplace special. While there are a lot of really great packages available, it’s quite possible that you won’t be able to book your favored destination with a group and therefore will end up striking out on your own.

You can have a lot of fun on your own provided that you did your research. Making sure that the country and its laws are gay friendly is highly recommended and that you get a feel for whether or not you’re likely to be left alone so you can get on with your business. Once you know these things then you can plan out the perfect getaway for the two of you.

What are you hoping to gain from booking this particular vacation? When you think of romance what are you thinking of and what does your partner think of? There can be plenty of romance in fun and adventure just as there is romance in sweet and subdued. Sometimes staying in your hotel room for the entire vacation can be very romantic, provided that it is your choice.

Structured packages give you a chance to find some of the most impressive destinations. You can not only find incredibly fun things to do but you will most likely experience the freedom that you just can’t find anywhere else. There is no need to steal glances, remain a respectable distance apart, or refer to each other as “friends.” You get to be completely and totally yourself. You can even explore the different sides of who you are and you can do it without fear. That type of freedom is something very few of us get to live with.

Naturally when you think of a romantic gay trip you think of a gay cruise. They are becoming tremendously popular. While not your only choice, these are trips that are seriously fun and cool and should be experienced by all of us at least once in our lives. If you haven’t been on one yet, add it to your list of things to do.

Of course, you’re going to want more options than just cruises. The cool thing about going through structured agencies that cater to the GLBT community is that you can pick from tons of spots, because they work with you to get it done. Overseas visits, ski resorts, safaris, and hot little islands in the South Pacific are a few of the choices you have. Creating some really nice scenery can do wonders for that little romantic getaway.

If you’re going it alone you just can’t have the same freedom that structured gay romantic vacations offer you. There isn’t the same sense of privacy. Sure, spending a weekend in a hotel room can be romantic when it’s your choice. A week isn’t quite as romantic.

–About–

By Howie Holben – Howie Holben is the owner of Spirit Journeys, a gay travel organization that focuses on spiritual travel. Spirit Journeys has offered unique gay romantic trips since 1992. Howie has travelled the world for over thirty years learning spiritual teachings, traditions and practices from indigenous peoples. He takes great pleasure assisting others on their own spiritual path and in introducing them to practices, sacred ways and cultures to help them “step outside their box”. He is a Reiki/Karuna Ki Master and also a Quantum Touch and Breathwork Practioner. His goal is to help others uncover their potential by setting their hearts and minds free. You can learn more about Howie, his work and gay romance vacations at SpiritJourneys.com.

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